The Unspoken Anecdotes (TUA)

What was the only mistake he committed? Ans- He was Different. What was the reason for the society to hate him? Ans- He was Different. Why was he never accepted by anyone? Ans- He was Different. Why was he deprived of all the privileges? Ans- He was Different.  Why his own family felt ashamed of him? Ans- He was Different. Why He always felt lonely? Ans- He was Different. Remember one thing, if someone is different, if God has created their body and mind in different style..why should it even matter whether they belong to LGBTQ Community or not..whether they are physically and mentally similar to others or not..what only matters is that they possess the purest of emotions and love for all..they are just another piece of art by God..which deserves to be respected the same as others are respected..They are special and unique but not abnormal, they too have a beautiful and pious soul and a heart which beats for their family, friends and love..

I've seen people targeting those who commit suicide by saying that "they were coward, that's why they committed suicide".. Now to begin, I'll start with the most basic points. First of all, we all have to understand and accept depression as a disease like any other deadly disease such as TB, Cancer, etc. (sometimes even more worse), then we can comment over this. Suppose someone die because of cancer, then I don't think that anyone would say; "He was a coward, hence he died because of the cancer".  Same goes for other diseases too. But I just can't understand that why people treat depression so differently. If someone commits suicide because of a long depression or a short mental trauma, that means that he could not survive the disease, just like any other XYZ person might not have survived cancer or hepatitis or heart attack. It is as simple as that. Don't blame people who commit suicide. It's just that they couldn't survive depressi...

Sometimes, what matters is only the love. It's a beautiful feeling, really beautiful. Being in a relationship must be secondary. Not all love give rise to relationships, nor all relationships begin from love. Relationship is a mixed plethora of feelings, expectations, priorities and hence it may have a negative impact too, as expections are meant to be broken..but love doesn't need that kinda checklist of expectations..no way.. Love is love. It's beautiful even if it's from one side. But relationships don't work like that, I'm not saying that relationships are bad.. But relationships are mandatorily a two way thing.  On contrary, If I love someone, i need not to be in a relationship with her or it's not at all a compulsion that she must also love me back with the same intentness, the way I. Love is beautiful, you just need beautiful eyes to capture every moment spent together and feel the love hidden in those small things.  Love in its purest form is truly t...

No one has all bads or all goods. It's always that they are more tilted towards one of them.The person you may think bad, may be good for something or the person you think good, may be worse for something. People are not always the same. For example, a 12th standard boy/girl can never be as innocent as he/she was in 6th or 8th standards..Experiences mould personalities..and that's fuckin' true. No one is completely good or completely bad..it's just that they are lesser bad or lesser good. And no one has constant personas, let me remind you of that. Nothing is constant except this tiltation. Only this tiltation is constant and it'll happen for sure, howsoever efforts someone put to not let him/her change. Learn to love that lesser goodness and accept that lesser badness of so called bad and good guys. If you do not find someone the same he/she was earlier, it's natural, don't complain or curse them. Understand them. Accept them. Hang out with them. Try to kno...

School Love Isn't school love the most innocent one?? Let me share some of those small memories and little things which may give you a nostalgic feeling, i hope many of you would find it relatable; 1. Chemistry Lab- If you had science as your stream, and your crush was in the same section as of yours, then you probably had the best times in chemistry lab. Going, collecting test tubes the same time as of her's, and then performing those tests, practicals together with no one interrupting or teasing. Asking doubts, helping in those flame tests. And then that background music of pehla nasha tunes in when you see her wearing lab coat. Don't you miss that chemistry lab? And those lab memories? 2. School Canteen If you had a chance to hang out with her in the school canteen, then you were very lucky. Having momos together in the same plate, then having rounds of cold coffees and at last gifting her some chocolates just without any reason. In fact those were the best momos and cof...

As soon as Pratyush saw me at his home with all my luggage, he was so happy and overwhelmed that he hugged me tight, and then we both abused each other continously for minutes and that too without any reason😂😂..let me tell you, this is how back bencher best friends treat each other when they meet after years. We were best friends since 11th standard, he knew all of my secrets. And that's why he was very special for me and so was his wedding..I was really very excited for it. And then after the rest of 2 hours only, I had to jump into the work. There was so many work to do..arranging a good decorator, a good music band, shopping for the groom..and much more..Really there are so many works for men to do in a wedding preparation, specially for groom's brothers and friends..and as Pratyush didn't have any brothers, so it was only me left to arrange everything. But I was really enjoying each and every moment, the preparations and the late night talks I and Pratyush were having...

Some things are weird, no? So was our relationship. It was not sort of a cute or tempting one. We took things really very casual. We didn't have any sort of goals or to-do-list nor any big plans for future. We were like "let's enjoy the present". We lived in moments for moments. This sounds quite cool, no? But this so called "cool" perspective of ours ended up things really worse. With time, we came to know that being serious, being responsible is important sometimes. Not always we can stay in that urchin, free lifestyle. There comes a time in everyone's life when we have to face and accept our responsibilities. Sometimes we need to be answerable. Things worked for sometime, but slowly it was not going so smoothly as we thought it would.  Endless conversations ended into awkward silences. Calls ended up in whatsapp chats, from innumerous talks, we reached a stage where "how are you?" was the only question to ask, with "fine, all okay"...